Anything to be grateful for?

I read that the poorest among us in the US are solidly middle class in comparison to most of the world, namely still developing countries. We truly have little to complain about and much to be grateful for

Happy Thanksgiving to all American friends.

Be thankful for little things because they are most important:
You have roof over your head.
You ate today
You have good heart
You wish good for others
You have clean water
Someone cares about you
You strive to be better
You have clean clothes
You have a dream
You are breathing.
And I am grateful as well to be part this forum.

I'm grateful that I didn't die when I feel off that cliff in Maui last September...it took over a year to heal, and thank God for Medicare!

Happy Thanksgiving to all in the USA.

Grateful to be part of this Aging Care.

I’m thankful for the care and comfort of other caregivers, current former and future, and this safe place to interact. Lots of love, support and the kick in the pants we sometimes need. Hugs

I placed my mother in care 3 years ago, so am no longer her caregiver. (except that I look after her $, house, supplies, etc) I am grateful for my wonderful husband who supported me through those horrible hands-on caregiving years. My kids, who, in spite of their ages, saw that it was a complex situation, with no easy answers. And my best friend, to whom I vented far too often.

I am healthy, I live comfortably and am finally learning who I am. (as opposed to who I was expected to be) Believe me, I am grateful every single day!

Happy Thanksgiving to all of you on the USA side of our border.

I am so happy for a good friend of mine, she is 55

Her husband and Dad died, last November. She of course had a horrible year. The worst part was because she was so vonerable, and lonely, creepy men surrounded her.

She finally found the perfect man for right now, anyways. He is really good to her and actually not physically capable of being creepy. They have developed the perfect companionship. He is lonely, she is lonely,and neither one want anything else.

Nacy, you ask what, as a caregiver, we can still be grateful for.
I am not now a caregiver. I mean, N. and I, as partners, are always propping one another up over SOMETHING, but I am no longer a caregiver.

I am, however, inCREDIBLY grateful, and for more things than I can even begin to mention. At 82, and while I went through the usual lost relationships, and lost loved ones, and an illness of two for myself or those I loved did so, I have done it with incredible support and good luck. I spend my life now really in gratefulness for another good day. And it takes very little to light a day for me. A good book, a sweet foster dog, a more manageable garden, sweet and kind people around me--GOOD PEOPLE.

Speaking of which, I am very grateful for this Forum, which daily gives me hope in us humans (something I don't always have in abundance). I have met here some of the smartest, kindest, most giving, most courageous and enduring folks ever. Getting up every a.m. at 6 a.m or so, my laptop comes open, propped on its own special pillow, the coffee with cream rests on the windowsill by my bed, the Foster does her morning ablutions and joins me covered in her snug blankie, and I pound away on the keyboard. For me, somewhat a recluse, it is social connection. As an old nurse it lets me pretend I can still help someone and am not ONLY a drag and a "taker" on my society--on the community.

So I am very grateful. For health and family and friends and animals and gardens and a dog on my bed, the cream in my coffee. And for YOU, too.
Thanks for asking.
I want to wish everyone a good holiday.

I am grateful that after three weeks visiting my father I am back home with my daughter and grandchildren to celebrate Thanksgiving. It has not been an easy year and I've had a few hard life lessons that taught me what actually matters. I am grateful for that.

I'm also grateful that I am not hosting tomorrow.

I wish you all a very Happy Thanksgiving.

I'm greatfull, I got hubby to go outside and play so I can have the kitchen to myself. 😁

Being Thanks Giving tomorrow, I just wanted to bring this back up , as a reminder, to think of all the good things in are life.

way - that's awesome. Hope she stays with that decision.

sadin - that trust from your mom is wonderful.

fawnby - stay safe!!!

Fawn, I'm Greatfull you haven't gotten bit too!!🙂

There are baby rattlesnakes all around our community now - and I didn’t get bitten!

I am so grateful my mom initiated giving me the power to make decisions for her. That has been such a huge help. She also told me “never listen to what I say I want…I trust you 100% to have my back..and when I need it move me to a nursing home”. I am so grateful I have had no guilt in any of my decisions. Year 6 of Lewy Body Dementia…

Waytomisery, 😁😁😁😁😁, that's awesome!!

Yes!!
Spoke with stubborn MIL on the phone , she has decided she ISN’T going to fly to Florida with a blood clot in her leg . 🙏🏻🙏🏻
For now anyway . 😬🙄

I think telling her multiple times over the last few weeks that we are NOT flying down there to rescue her if something happens may have worked !!! Either that or the fact that I actually got on the phone the last two calls .( rare on my part ).

One more thing today, is silence, no humming from the AC, windows are open , birds are tweeting, a slight breeze. That's heaven to me right now

I am VERY grateful this morning that a very large piece of a tree , just missed my car! Had some bad storms last night.

Golden, I'm so glad you are getting sometime to just do you! 🙂

Eva - your list is quite amazing!!! I need to read it again. I think you are very practiced in gratitude!!!

I am very grateful today for some respite for a couple of weeks. R has gone for on a trip with one of his dds and 2 grandsons (planned before the accident). The boys are into ball games so it will be centered in that. He still tires easily so hopefully will get the rest he needs. I certainly will and am thankful for this time off. It's not been that bad but he needs more help than before so I have been "on duty" more. He is driving now and thankfully stops and rests when he needs to. He will have appointments when he comes back and I will go with him to those.

Evamar this is a wonderful list

The humidity is leaving my area tomorrow, that is a huge something to be greatfull for, for me!!

Wheat , I love your story, we see so many horrible stories yours is so sweet , and refreshing! Thank you for sharing that.

I am grateful for your story today, wheat

I am grateful that my parents are still alive so I can show them my love and gratitude for all they have done for me for over 60 years. My mother is often in a dementia fog, with short-term memory loss, sundowning, restlessness and agitation. However, she sends me text messages that she loves me and wants to see me very soon. My father is stronger and does not suffer the physical and mental deterioration of my mother. I can still call him for practical advice and counsel, and comfort as we watch Mom in what may be her final years. Too often I have betrayed their trust in me, and caused them grief and despair. Now I do all I can to help them be safe and comfortable. Evamar, I appreciate your list so much and I will certainly choose one or more each day. Thank you

We should be grateful for something every day.
Gratitude list suggestions, pick one or two per day,
Family who loves you
Friends you relate to
Significant other who reminds you you’re not alone
Eyes that allow you to see the world’s beauty
Ears that allow you to listen to music
Nose that allows you to smell 
Arms that allow you to hold a newborn baby
Legs that give you the freedom to move
Mouth that lets you taste delicious food
Ability to talk
Friendly neighbors who smile at you
Morning coffee for jolting you awake
Libraries with endless books allowing you to learn
Music that helps you feel
Mother nature’s beauty
Your lungs which are working hard as you read this
Today because you’ve been given it
Art that mesmerizes you
The comfort of your own home
Access to food
Having a steady pay check
Paying bills on time
Weekends that give you more time to spend on life
The internet which helps you find what you’re looking for
Clean water to drink from
Toilets (as some countries don’t have them)
A relaxing massage
A hot shower
A healthy body
Your unique personality
Your kind heart
Your strength to keep going when things get tough
Your favorite happy memories
Belly laughs
Watching the sunset in the evening
Pets that bring you all the joy
Kind hearted strangers that show you love
Doctors who’ve healed you
An apology from someone whose hurt you
Forgiveness from someone you hurt
Birthdays because it’s a day that’s all about you
The first snowfall in the winter
Christmas Eve dinner
Getting another chance to a fresh start on New Years Day
A sunny day in the outdoors
Dancing in the rain
Romantic proposals
Your happiest moment
Watching waves crash into boulders
Getting mail from a friend
Sleeping in your bed
Staying up all night talking to an amazing person
Wishing on a shooting star
Going to an event you’ve been waiting for for months
Being on vacation
Finishing a big project
Dancing at a wedding
Family reunions
A good night’s sleep
A quiet moment of solitude
The ability to meditate
Having a functioning brain
Being self-aware
Finding something you’ve lost
Learning to let go
All that knowledge stored up in your brain
Your growth throughout your life
Your willingness to help others
A lived-in home 
Your ability to make good decisions
The fact that you’re still hopeful that things will get better
The recognition you received on a project
Silly coworkers who make the day more fun
The fire burning inside you
Clean laundry
The smell of lavender
Your freedom
Having things money can’t buy
Eating your favorite food
Connecting with others on social media
Your favorite season
Your sports team’s winning a game
The reason you go into work each morning
Someone holding the door for you
A friend calling to check-in
Compliments from strangers
Surprise gifts
The ability to improve your life
Your quirky talents
Feeling safe
Activities that turn your brain off
Being able to read this
Long weekends
Comfortable shoes
Starlit skies
Rainbows after the storm
Thank you notes 
Comfy robes
New adventures
The world has never been more prosperous
People have been more accepting of diversity than ever
No physical pain
Kind strangers
A walk in the forest
Learning something new
Autumn leaves
First warm day after a cold winter
Watching the first snowfall
Positive comments on posts
Having that one friend who likes all your social media posts
Sleeping in
Quenching hunger
Finding money in your pocket
Finding a toilet when you really need to go
Getting the last parking spot
A driver letting you pass in front of them
People who donate blood
Having healthy family and friends
Watching the success of a friend
Making the final payment on your student loans
Working from home 
Singing karaoke with friends
Eating cookie batter from the bowl
Staying in on a Friday night
Pursuing your favorite hobby
The feeling you get when you help someone 
Getting goosebumps
A first kiss
The feeling you get when you’ve finally found the one
Taking medication that actually works
Finding the answer to your

My local corn on the cob. 🌽 😋😍

BGirl, welcome to are forum, I luv your story it is very touching and sweet, and refreshing. Looking forward to reading more from you

Grateful thinking is where relief comes. A grateful attitude has helped me so much the last 11 years as I care for my husband of 15 years. We've had a lot of fun together. Things aren't so fun now. I'm 62, he's 87 and has dementia. So much has been lost, but there is a lot that has been gained as well. I've gained experience, understanding and patience I never had - and that's mine to keep, no matter what happens. I've gained courage as my sweetheart has lost every ability and we have faced scary stuff together. He still thanks me each time I do something for him. I've overcome the fear of allowing others to help me - as I could not cope right now without the home health and hospice helpers who assist us. I have serious medical issues of my own. I'm learning to prioritize my own care - something that was always difficult for me in the past, whether it was a personal or cultural issue. Thankfully, my health is improving gradually, good numbers and adequate energy right now, when a year ago there were many days I could barely get out of bed and could not eat normally.
Anyway, thanks for making this post; it was a good place to connect. This is my first time posting here. I look forward to learning more and finding community with you all.

Anxiety ,

Good for you! You’ll get a break and be able to relax because you will be too far away to go over to your Mom’s house , leaving your brother with POA to have to step up !!

Just booked our cruise in January 😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁