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Just be there and do what you can for him. Is he bedridden? If not, take a drive together, go to the park. What does he enjoy doing? I hope you're able to find some joy for yourself and your dad. [Hugs]
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Not to stress you more but..
It is not a "what if" he deteriorates but "how fast"
You can do a lot of things that can help you.
Hire caregivers. (Dad pays for them)
If he is eligible contact a couple of Hospice in your area ask for him to be evaluated.
With Hospice a Nurse will come 1 time a week to check on him and order medications. (medications will be delivered to you)
A CNA will come 2 or 3 times a week to give him a bath or shower and order supplies. you will get briefs,' gloves, barrier creams, and other supplies that you need. If / when you need equipment that will be ordered and delivered to you.
Your other option will be to look for Memory Care.
You are in a grieving process and it is normal to be sad, worried, angry and all the rest of the emotions that we have as humans.
And not to add more to your plate...if you have not consulted an Elder Care Attorney you might want to do that. make sure you have all the paperwork you need to legally make decisions for him. And the process if needed to apply for Medicaid.
If your dad is a Veteran contact the local Veterans Assistance Commission there may be benefits that your dad is entitled to.
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RedVanAnnie Mar 2023
As always, G1954, you have summarized it well.
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