My brother is her financial POA, is on her joint checking account, the executor of her will. She has no health care directive. I am concerned if he should die and she is incompentent, who will pay her bills, take care of her business. I have tried to talk to my brother and mother about my concerns but they just don't seem to care. My brother says, "You can just get guardianship", well gee thanks.
stage Alzheimer's . I want to do the right thing for him. I had no idea the hospital
wants me to let my husband stay in a room with no water or nourishment until he passes .Please help me!
If Sis has any kind of a valid perspective and is not just off the deep end or being brutal, another option could be an elder mediation service. Has she ever voiced a reasonable perspective on any of this to you, beyond just wishing to be POA, which does not seem like enough of a grievance to go as far as she has, so you have more of an idea of where she is coming from?