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Mine only works 6 hours a week. She doesn’t communicate with the family very well and does the bare minimum, But, we are very thankful for the commitment of just having somebody there.

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6 hours and does the minimum?
Then nothing.
Sorry, I am the Grinch in the family and think this whole gift thing is overdone anyway. I would, were I that green man, toss the presents and make them surround the tree in love yearly instead.

So I would avoid a whole lot of Christmasy talk. Just go on with normal life. Don't have a multitude of wrapped packages everywhere indicating you are gifting the entire world ACCEPT for her.

If not, then a 50.00 gift card for Trader Joe or something might be nice.
But I wouldn't spend a whole lot of time thinking on all this. I would be decorating instead, or were I a person of Faith I would be in my church.
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ElizabethAR37 Dec 19, 2024
Normally, I would totally agree. I'm a bit Grinchy myself. However, we have a really wonderful housecleaning pro. She often does extra for us and has offered to be my transportation when/if I decide to have cataract surgery next year. She is also a terrific baker and delivered goodies to us a few days ago (NOT that we need the calories!). I will give her a fairly generous cash "tip" for Christmas. She has earned it and I'm glad I can do it.
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If she is private, you can give her one weeks pay. A days pay if she comes 2 or 3 hours a day. A nice giftcard.

Really, at 6 hrs a week what can you expect but the bare minimum. Not much time to do anything other than what she can do in six hours a week. An aides job is to care for the client. 6 hrs just covers dressing, bathing and making lunch. Maybe a little vacuuming and dusting. Maybe some laundry.
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Is this caregiver from an agency? Many agencies have restrictions as to how much they can accept.
If this is a private pay I would give her what she gives ... the bare minimum.
Give her what you are comfortable with, given what you have said I probably would not give more than a day's pay. ... if that..
I think I would also have a sit down with her and tell her that things should improve.
I'm curious what she does in the 6 hours a week and if that is 6 hours in 1 day or 2 hours 3 days a week?
There are plenty of caregivers looking for work.
There are agencies that will do hourly jobs and it sounds like this is more "companion" caregiving not a lot of "hands on" caregiving.
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Ours were not allowed to accept gifts but we still gave a little something as acknowledgement, like a gift card to the coffee shop and an amaryllis plant. I think as long as it's kept under $20 it's not going to cause them any difficulties.
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