Has anyone heard of this. She seems normal most of the time but has done some very strange things. Mostly Made up some weird things about me that weren't true..
saying I said certain things that I never said....
She Really made me an enemy to her.
I said to her on the phone Mom can we stop this and bury the sword, your making me an enemy, can you stop that.. and she says to me "you stop being the way your being" and the personality seems to have gotten hateful and bitter towards me no one else is getting this treatment.I don't understand it the change .
I took her to the Dr. and she said I told her to sit down were not going anywhere real mean to her and I never said it like that.
She was having delusions about money and bank statements and birthday cards that she said I stole.
Just ripped me apart and I did none of it I could go on and on about the behavior she has done towards me saying things and really thinking things in her head about me that make me evil to her.
Is this common.
The relationship is gone at this point she wont even talk to me and I have been her closest ally in 10 years.
I don't get it
Yes, her behavior toward you is common. Sometimes it is a stage that goes away.
The paranoia is VERY hurtful to the family member, but try to remember that this is not your "real mother" speaking. This is the dementia.
Where does your mother live? Assisted living, her own home, with a family member, etc ?