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The good news is that my oldest and middle sister are both stepping it up. To some folks like Jeanne I agree to and say thank you very much; sometimes a person needs to see things objectively to help them wade through life's tougher issues, without all the drama. So, Sue or whomever else they feel this is directed to thank you but you can reply on other threads because I'm not here for that.
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Thanks Surprise, I like that and just may look into it. Could possibly help with juggling the heavy school workload too. But it's a city college; sounds like your children go to a private one where they pay a higher tuition and  receive those type of services. But I may see what's available.
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I am so glad you are seeing a light at the end of the tunnel. It is nice to be able to say exactly what you need to here. Some things you cannot say to people 'face to face' I wish you great luck with your studies. Hugs for the future. Sorry I could not help much with advice.
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Hi, CeeCee, I'm glad that your family is stepping up.

Remember that in the end, the only person whose behavior you can change is yours.
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Buzzy Bee,

That did help, because you can relate to not being able to say it face to face. I don't have nearly as much as a problem with just anyone; but for some reason family is too often the ones who can push our buttons. Therefore, it's more of a process with certain issues concerning them.
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Barb Brooklyn,

Yes, and I actually proposed the idea to the oldest sister for me (the youngest) and the middle sister to go knock on the door of the 2nd oldest one (the never show who lives right in town), once those two are in town again. Oldest sis said she would be down for that, lol. I see the one who lives in town more as hiding than anything. She can at least explain herself face to face!  I also see my behavior as more of changing perspectives.
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