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Hi everyone!

It's just occurred to me that I accidentally posted my update about Mom's MRI on the my very first thread, instead of on this thread. Rather than duplicate, I'll leave it there. If you want to read it, here's the thread link: https://www.agingcare.com/questions/mom-diagnosed-with-dementia-but-im-not-convinced-and-i-have-so-many-questions-472835.htm

Thanks again for all again for showing of support, kindness and for sharing your experiences with me. It has meant so very much. ❤️
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Llamalover47 Apr 2022
heidiann: Thank you for your update.
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My Mom wasn't diagnosed with dementia until a few years ago. Turns out, she was somewhat relieved by the diagnosis because she thought she was just losing her mind. The diagnosis gave her a reason why she couldn't remember things, etc. She had secretly been worrying about it for more years than I had. Even if you never know what the cause is, you cared enough to search for answers. You may have even secretly helped your Mom.
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There are many things that can be done to impact age-related dementia. What the doctor described was not scary, but rather encouraging actually. Healthy eating habits with good nutrition; creative use of things that your mom enjoys, and talking to Dad about giving mom a break would be very helpful right away. Then find ways to lessen her stress level which is the chief offender in age related dementia. Regular contact with her (same time daily, weekly?) reminders about family birthdays/celebrations; tactfully offering to help her to traditional things without asking questions like "did you remember to...". All those things will give her confidence that she can manage. Good for you for caring.
One other thing, perhaps the most important is that you help your dad with his fears also. He is perhaps being more critical than helpful with his comments and that is usually a fear response. He is older too.
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