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One sister dominated mom’s care is extremely angry and resentful. Has sold off all of moms things, and does not report anything to siblings. Now, mom is requiring more care.
My brother is poa, but it's a secret, no one admits it no one talks about it. I'm sure it's because mom is very proud, doesn't want to admit it. And also doesn't want any of us telling my brother when she falls.
Me on the others hand who does , or was doing everything (but got smart) have no power at all
The only power I do have is, to watch over mom, if her dementia gets worse or if she falls, I can bring her to ER, or call ambulance, then my POA brother will have to deal. So it's a waiting game, of me watching over her to see if he sees she needs more help, or needs er care first
Is sister POA? If so, she does not need to inform her siblings in how she carries out her responsibilities. Her POA probably gives her permission to sell. If Mom needs more care, then its up to the POA to hire help on Moms dime or place her. If she has money, place her in a nice AL. If not, in a Longterm care facility with Medicaid paying.
Your sister does not have to physically care for Mom. All she does is handle the money and make sure Moms bills are paid. If Mom needs help, then Sister can hire help out of Moms money.
Is the sister who sold things the POA? If she is, she is not required by law to share your mother's personal assets and financial business with other siblings.
If you are fearful that the current POA is not doing a good job, or does not have the right by law to do as she is doing, then it is time to discuss your suspicions with the POA. Let her know that if she will not share with you proof that sale of assets are being kept record of and deposited to Mom's accounts you will be forced to as APS to investigate her record keeping and open a case for investigation. This may cause your Sister to share her POA papers with you and show you her records and files. If she does not you may attend an elder law attorney if APS will not intervene. The Elder Law attorney can petition a judge to exam the records of the POA.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
VI. No Waiver of Your Rights.
APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
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I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
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APFM may provide information to me electronically. My electronic signature on agreements and documents has the same effect as if I signed them in ink.
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Me on the others hand who does , or was doing everything (but got smart) have no power at all
The only power I do have is, to watch over mom, if her dementia gets worse or if she falls, I can bring her to ER, or call ambulance, then my POA brother will have to deal. So it's a waiting game, of me watching over her to see if he sees she needs more help, or needs er care first
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Your sister does not have to physically care for Mom. All she does is handle the money and make sure Moms bills are paid. If Mom needs help, then Sister can hire help out of Moms money.
Howchave you tried to help your Mom?
If she is, she is not required by law to share your mother's personal assets and financial business with other siblings.
If you are fearful that the current POA is not doing a good job, or does not have the right by law to do as she is doing, then it is time to discuss your suspicions with the POA. Let her know that if she will not share with you proof that sale of assets are being kept record of and deposited to Mom's accounts you will be forced to as APS to investigate her record keeping and open a case for investigation. This may cause your Sister to share her POA papers with you and show you her records and files. If she does not you may attend an elder law attorney if APS will not intervene. The Elder Law attorney can petition a judge to exam the records of the POA.