Hi Dinzel from Australia here. I am still
on here and big thanks for all your advice as I am in Australian bush and have no-one. The lady who
asked me what I really wanted from my parents-I answer you. Because they only told me I was adopted at age 63 ,I have always viewed them as my parents. I have no other family. I guess I just wanted their love and kindness. The money being denied me is just another hurt. My mother has always disliked me-sometimes she made some horrible and untrue comments about my Dad and I -sexual ones. I was a pretty girl but he was my Dad and I loved him like his daughter and did not know of my adoption. There are some gaps in my story because they refuse to allow me to visit them now and I think are worried I will contest their Will. Thank you so much.xxx
Are you maybe referring to PoA? Again, each person needs their own PoA individually. Is your brother PoA for each of your parents? In the U.S. if you suspect fraud or abuse by a PoA you can pursue the matter in court but you will need to provide evidence for an attorney to consider if your case is strong enough. Again, it would need to be for each individual (your mom and dad, separately).
If your parents are each still mentally competent, then you can't really do anything until that point, which is when your brother's PoA authority (again, for each individual parent) would become active.