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Pay them $30 to print out on archival or print myself? Any negative points for doing this online vs going to a lawyer? Any pros or cons for Legal zone?
Send, I used both the DPOA and Living Will to handle financial transactions, rehab and hospital placement, pay bills and probably more that I've forgotten about - all based on unavailability due to (a) medically induced coma and (b) inability to speak because of a tracheostomy. I had no trouble whatsoever with any of the facilities.
Also had to use them to get past records from treating doctors.
I am so glad that I chose the attorney I chose - she was an outstanding attorney.
I'm adamantly opposed to use of these forms unless the person has extensive legal background. That includes me; despite having worked in law for decades and worked in estate planning firms, I wouldn't even consider myself knowledgeable enough to draft either document, in part because I also do not have a very extensive knowledge of tax law.
Nor would I rely on a website unless it's Nolo, which I've found on the few occasions I've used it has some decent advice. I have not checked their forms though.
One of the major issues that would concern me is whether anyone needing who needs estate planning has any issues that he or she may not realize could be problematic and require special provisions. Another is that only the person who wants the documents drawn up has the best knowledge of his or her situation, and without sharing those kinds of details, may end up using a boiler plate form that really ignores or worse yet complicates a situation not addressed in the standardized documents.
I get e-mail newsletters from one of the firms for which I worked; there are a lot of changes and specific issues that really require the knowledge of someone who practices in the estate planning area, who keeps up to date on statutory changes and case law, and updates the documents regularly. Sometimes I can't even understand the statutory changes, let alone figure out how they impact our situation or how to integrate them into documents.
Ask yourself this: what do you want a POA for? Do you want a springing POA or DPOA? How much authority do you want to delegate? Do you want one proxy, and if so, what happens if that person becomes ill, unable to serve, or decides he/she no longer wants the responsibility?
Do you want joint proxies working together or with independent authority to act? Do you know what the pitfalls of each might be?
At the time we met with our attorney for my sister's and later my father's estate plans, I hadn't as much knowledge of DPOAs but was later glad that my attorney created a DPOA which I could use w/o declaration of incompetency. And I did have to use it, for very unexpected situations. She was very experienced and provided us with documents that covered a multitude of situations, including some which we never even conceived of.
GA, so sorry you had to have a loved one go through that. And, I am happy for you that you have this amazing legal experience to help get you through the financials/legal of the process. Choosing the right attorney is difficult.
Here is my take on on-line legal documents that aren't connected to some type of legal firm, such as Legal Zoom.
I believe that Legal Zoom fills out the legal documents associated with your State. There are other websites where you do it yourself, don't try to fill out the forms yourself.... one misplaced word or one missing word could create a landmine in the future.
Personally, I rather sit across a table from a local Elder Law Attorney that way I can ask 101 questions and there is no miscommunications. Yes, it will be expensive, but worth every penny in the long run. And if a year later I have more questions, I can go back in front of that same Attorney.
If money is an issue in what you can afford, on-line service is better than not having any Power of Attorney and Will in place.
I found my Elder Law Attorney right here on AgingCare.... under the MONEY & LEGAL section up on the blue bar. I put in my zip code on the attorney search section under Money & Legal and up popped a lot of names, then did some background research on the names and decided on one person who looked like the right fit. I was right.
I even got my parents to use the attorney [a young woman] as my Mom was from the old school that women shouldn't be attorneys, doctors, sports announcers, etc. but stay home to have babies... [sigh]. It all worked out :)
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
VI. No Waiver of Your Rights.
APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
I agree that:
A.
I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
B.
APFM may provide information to me electronically. My electronic signature on agreements and documents has the same effect as if I signed them in ink.
C.
APFM may send all communications to me electronically via e-mail or by access to an APFM web site.
D.
If I want a paper copy, I can print a copy of the Disclosures or download the Disclosures for my records.
E.
This E-Sign Acknowledgement and Authorization applies to these Disclosures and all future Disclosures related to APFM's services, unless I revoke my authorization. You may revoke this authorization in writing at any time (except where we have already disclosed information before receiving your revocation.) This authorization will expire after one year.
F.
You consent to APFM's reaching out to you using a phone system than can auto-dial numbers (we miss rotary phones, too!), but this consent is not required to use our service.
Also had to use them to get past records from treating doctors.
I am so glad that I chose the attorney I chose - she was an outstanding attorney.
Nor would I rely on a website unless it's Nolo, which I've found on the few occasions I've used it has some decent advice. I have not checked their forms though.
One of the major issues that would concern me is whether anyone needing who needs estate planning has any issues that he or she may not realize could be problematic and require special provisions. Another is that only the person who wants the documents drawn up has the best knowledge of his or her situation, and without sharing those kinds of details, may end up using a boiler plate form that really ignores or worse yet complicates a situation not addressed in the standardized documents.
I get e-mail newsletters from one of the firms for which I worked; there are a lot of changes and specific issues that really require the knowledge of someone who practices in the estate planning area, who keeps up to date on statutory changes and case law, and updates the documents regularly. Sometimes I can't even understand the statutory changes, let alone figure out how they impact our situation or how to integrate them into documents.
Ask yourself this: what do you want a POA for? Do you want a springing POA or DPOA? How much authority do you want to delegate? Do you want one proxy, and if so, what happens if that person becomes ill, unable to serve, or decides he/she no longer wants the responsibility?
Do you want joint proxies working together or with independent authority to act? Do you know what the pitfalls of each might be?
At the time we met with our attorney for my sister's and later my father's estate plans, I hadn't as much knowledge of DPOAs but was later glad that my attorney created a DPOA which I could use w/o declaration of incompetency. And I did have to use it, for very unexpected situations. She was very experienced and provided us with documents that covered a multitude of situations, including some which we never even conceived of.
I believe that Legal Zoom fills out the legal documents associated with your State. There are other websites where you do it yourself, don't try to fill out the forms yourself.... one misplaced word or one missing word could create a landmine in the future.
Personally, I rather sit across a table from a local Elder Law Attorney that way I can ask 101 questions and there is no miscommunications. Yes, it will be expensive, but worth every penny in the long run. And if a year later I have more questions, I can go back in front of that same Attorney.
If money is an issue in what you can afford, on-line service is better than not having any Power of Attorney and Will in place.
I am greatly encouraged by this news, maybe now I can research more and proceed to help my husband. (and I).
I even got my parents to use the attorney [a young woman] as my Mom was from the old school that women shouldn't be attorneys, doctors, sports announcers, etc. but stay home to have babies... [sigh]. It all worked out :)