Mom is 99, has macular degeneration, very hard of hearing, but very clear headed. Several years ago my second oldest brother talked my mom into giving her home to my oldest brother. He didn't want it at the time and still does not. He didn't want to hurt her feelings.
There are four of us that for the last three years travel from out of state and rotate our time to take care of my mom so she can remain in her's and my brother's home. My brother is asking if I would try to convince mother to change legal forms and give the home to another sibling or anything to get it out of his name. Unsure of New Mexico laws so am considering contacting an attorney. Any suggestions?
This is the key issue before legal action can take place. An attorney would ask the same questions; he/she will need to know specifically who holds title.
If your mom doesn't have a trust, I would highly recommend you help her to get one in place. With her appointed executor, POA as well, you can facilitate her wishes.
Best of luck!