From the caregivers stating that they are owed lost wages and overtime. They never complained about the rate mutually agreed and were always given bonuses at Christmas, included in family dinners, and treated as part of the family. Sent them each checks and cards of thanks when dad passed. They had worked with us for over 3 years and felt like part of the family:(
I’m wondering what the going rate for care is for 24-hr shifts with meals included. Also had strange things happen like the shift calendars all went missing from the house and lots of damage to the house in the last 3 months.
I'm sure they went through the files and the location of the house is in a good neighborhood so they expect he has $, but they don’t understand we’ve had to mortgage everything to pay them the last 3 years. Sold all his interest in stocks and his retirement accounts are emptied… We are all grieving the loss of dad and now feel like we just lost this extended family.
My own experience with something similar suggests to me that they may have been put up to it, perhaps by a boyfriend. ‘No money coming in, they must be rich, let’s give it a go’. Then you probably should just wait to see if a claim comes in, what detail it gives, and who it is addressed to. Worrying about paying a lawyer comes after that.
You need to talk to a labor and estate lawyer.
Take the contract and payment records with you.
You don't directly owe the money - unless you personally cosigned ( hope you didn't!). The estate owes the money. Life insurance is separate. It doesn't have to be used by beneficiaries to pay estate bills.
Going rate 2022 is $28/ hr on avg for caregivers. Graveyard shift / overnight pays higher. If you included meals that isn't included in the $28. That is just a perk-- unless they contractually agreed that each meal was worth say $3 and it was deducted from the pay rate. Stay above minimum wage, around $16/ hr. and you won't fall below probably.
If they were paid in full what they agreed to for rate and it was above min. wage, I think a labor lawyer will probably say they aren't owed more.
If the estate is bankrupt, no one else owes the money. Mortgage payment comes first when house is sold, taxes and any liens paid.
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My gut hunch- I am not a lawyer:
You may have the hassle, and probably do have a positive outcome.
It's better not to get involved in money lawsuits that end up causing much grief and anxiety. With a lawyer, you should be fine to settle and move on.
It sounds like a bit like extortion to me.
If they were paid to the penny for what was agreed upon up until your dad's passing, then their wages have been received and they have no leg to stand on.
I can't imagine. Ugh.
1. Letter of demand from whom? The individual caregivers, or an agency?
2. Does the demand letter itemize the dates, times, as well as recap what was paid and what allegedly was not paid? If not, that's a necessity.
The executor of Dad's will is responsible to handle this now, and whatever estate Dad has pays TO take care of this. My guess is that the attorney for Trust and Estate your executor hires can return a "dead, no estate" letter to the attorney who is acting for the parties threatening suit and this will be over with quickly.
Do not discuss or respond in any way to these people; that could go against you. In fact, the more "dumb" you are as to any of the details of this other than an innocent response of "I have no idea of Dad's contract with these people; if I come across any I will let you know. I only helped with his scheduling" would likely be best. Don't "go there" with responses such as "Dad paid the rate requested, and now, blah blah blah...."
Just keep in mind you are the innocent party who has no idea of any of this. Turn all communications over to the executor of Dad's will or Trust and let that person handle this with the Trust and Estate or probate attorney.
I would have a lawyer write them a letter telling them that their agreement was with your Dad. The family is saddened by the letter of demand they sent. Its felt you were treated very well during their employment. They received bonuses and severance after Dad passed. If they were not happy with their wages at time of employment, it should have been brought up then. That the cost of care for Dad depleted his retirement accts, his savings and stocks. Since the house has a Mortgage it will be sold to pay it off. SS and any pension stopped at his death. There is no inheritance. His children are not responsible for the cost of his care.
Hopefully, you wrote checks for everything. I also hope you changed the locks on Dads house. Sorry to say, this is why you keep things professional when hiring aides. I know, its hard. They were there for him. How did you receive their hours? Or you just paid them the same thing every week? IMO, they cashed their checks and by doing that they agreed to payment. If they had a problem it should have been brought up then.
Was their letter from a lawyer? If so, then it needs to be addressed by a lawyer. Otherwise, they are fishing.
So your father was paying the caregivers under the table? Was the "very loose" contract he had with each of them in writing?
For my Dad, I used a well known Agency and the cost was $20k per month, this was a few years ago. The Agency had each caregiver bring their own meals. Rarely was there overtime, if a caregiver was unable to make her shift, the Agency called in another caregiver.
Dad never had any damage caused by the caregivers. The damage he had was from trying to "drive" his walker around the house. I found as I am getting older, there are a lot of oops moments.
just really taken aback. No agency was involved and there is a very loose as I would call it contract dad had with each of them.