I feel quite unsafe. I don't live in the main house but l do need to use the bathroom and office where the computer is with a few pieces of my furniture. I've been here for 3 or so years and things got shaky a year ago and now there is a turn for the worst. She poisoned my tooth brush with a bleach substance. I would never leave my personal body items where she could get them. Have a spy camera in my bungalow. I dare not eat food from her. Thinking of going to talk with her doctor. Does anyone else have these wonderous stories?
Why does your mother need your care?
Do the benefits of living in your bungalow outway the negatives for you? Are you wanting to stay or have you considered living a bit more separately? I don't know where you live, but would renting a small apartment be affordable?