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Thankfully you have someone who has concern over your wellbeing. They can only do so much to help you be safe.
That being said, it is never too early to arrange for a better living situation for yourself before it happens in a crisis and you don't have any say in where you go or when.
If you don't have an assigned PoA you need to take yourself to an elder law attorney (have your daughter go with you). If you don't assign a PoA then social services will eventually refer your case to the courts and a judge will assign a 3rd party legal guardian for you... and it probably won't be your daughter. Don't put yourself -- or her -- in this very stressful (and less optimal) situation. Yes, it will cost some money but it will be the best investment you make at your age.
You should also create an Advance Healthcare Directive and POLST document so that your medical wishes are followed and your PoA won't be second-guessing any decisions they make on your behalf.
If your daughter is concerned that your current living situation is becoming unsafe, please listen to her. The best gift you can give her is to be wise and proactive and interested in your own safety and wellbeing.
I guess when you feel you need extra care huh? And in the meantime, you can have inexpensive security cameras placed around your home that your daughter can access through her phone to check on you anytime she wants to. You may also want to invest in a fall alert necklace or watch that will alert your daughter and the authorities if necessary if and when you fall during a seizure.
This is a personal decision only you, your daughter and your caregivers can make together. It is difficult to decide when to do these things, but you yourself, your family and your care team know you better than total strangers on a care Forum. I can only suggest that you get together your assets and your options and make what you feel is the best choice for you. For some it is caregivers who come to your home several times a week for a few hours. For others, the need for safety means placement. I wish you the best.
For now, I’d hope you have all needed documents such as a will, POA for healthcare and financial decisions, and an advanced directive in place, making sure your daughter knows where these documents are. Also, wear a fall alert device that will contact your daughter if and when you fall, and then contact 911 if needed. Make sure your home is as safe as possible. If you find yourself struggling with activities of daily living such as cooking, bathing, managing medications, laundry, dressing, etc. then it’s time to hire a helper or move to where help is available. Be grateful for your daughter’s care and concern. I wish you the best
Levram6411, welcome to the forum. When you get a chance, please fill out your Profile page, that will give us a better understanding of your situation. Such as are you in your 50's or in your 80's? Do you wish for your daughter to be you caregiver, or would you be comfortable with a private caregiver?
You had clicked on Assisted Living. Depending on your budget, you could move into an Independent Living apartment at a senior living facility. Unless you have other physical needs such as someone helping you dress, bathe, cook, etc. then you would probably need Assisted Living. My Dad had moved into senior living when he was in his 90's and he loved being around folks from his own generation :)
Hello Levram!! What I noticed is that you are on the second floor -it's unclear whether you live in a place where you have access to an elevator - but having an elevator (or a seated staircase lift) is essential for your safety. I'm also assuming that your bedroom is upstairs and that you have to go up and down your stairs to get to the living room and kitchen? This is dangerous and also most likely a major hassle for you to do. Please think seriously about moving to a place that has easily accessible elevators. No more stairs!!! Best of luck to you and wishing you well.
With epilepsy you never know when a seizure will strike. I will assume you are not allowed to drive. My Grandson had a seizure when he was sleeping. He was on meds but still had seizures at least 1x a month. He was a candidate for surgery so has been seizure free 4 yrs.
Do your medications keep you from having seizures? Not sure why you feel you will need to have care. Because it has to do with the brain, you may suffer from Dementia? You should be seeing a nuerologist and he/she can help you determine when it maybe time to have help. Lots of people live normal lives with Epilepsy. My grandson held down a fulltime job.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
VI. No Waiver of Your Rights.
APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
I agree that:
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I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
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APFM may provide information to me electronically. My electronic signature on agreements and documents has the same effect as if I signed them in ink.
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APFM may send all communications to me electronically via e-mail or by access to an APFM web site.
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If I want a paper copy, I can print a copy of the Disclosures or download the Disclosures for my records.
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This E-Sign Acknowledgement and Authorization applies to these Disclosures and all future Disclosures related to APFM's services, unless I revoke my authorization. You may revoke this authorization in writing at any time (except where we have already disclosed information before receiving your revocation.) This authorization will expire after one year.
F.
You consent to APFM's reaching out to you using a phone system than can auto-dial numbers (we miss rotary phones, too!), but this consent is not required to use our service.
That being said, it is never too early to arrange for a better living situation for yourself before it happens in a crisis and you don't have any say in where you go or when.
If you don't have an assigned PoA you need to take yourself to an elder law attorney (have your daughter go with you). If you don't assign a PoA then social services will eventually refer your case to the courts and a judge will assign a 3rd party legal guardian for you... and it probably won't be your daughter. Don't put yourself -- or her -- in this very stressful (and less optimal) situation. Yes, it will cost some money but it will be the best investment you make at your age.
You should also create an Advance Healthcare Directive and POLST document so that your medical wishes are followed and your PoA won't be second-guessing any decisions they make on your behalf.
If your daughter is concerned that your current living situation is becoming unsafe, please listen to her. The best gift you can give her is to be wise and proactive and interested in your own safety and wellbeing.
You may also want to invest in a fall alert necklace or watch that will alert your daughter and the authorities if necessary if and when you fall during a seizure.
You had clicked on Assisted Living. Depending on your budget, you could move into an Independent Living apartment at a senior living facility. Unless you have other physical needs such as someone helping you dress, bathe, cook, etc. then you would probably need Assisted Living. My Dad had moved into senior living when he was in his 90's and he loved being around folks from his own generation :)
Best of luck to you and wishing you well.
Do your medications keep you from having seizures? Not sure why you feel you will need to have care. Because it has to do with the brain, you may suffer from Dementia? You should be seeing a nuerologist and he/she can help you determine when it maybe time to have help. Lots of people live normal lives with Epilepsy. My grandson held down a fulltime job.